HOW TO: fix a "rough patch"

SO! after nearly a whole year of marrage i have found an excellent way to get through a "rough patch". One person has to say, ok i'm ready to be over this and then announce out loud to the other person 3 things they really love abou the other person. Nothing they really want to hear at the time but 3 things you acutally love about them. Then it is the next persons turn and follow. **MEN-- it especially works when you have a piece of chocolate or something to give too. ;)